Do You Respect Yourself?

One of the first things you should be asking yourself when looking for a woman is, 'If I were a woman, would I find me attractive?' OK I know it sounds a little strange but it does make perfect sense. No I'm not talking about your physical looks but more who you are as a person. Think of an example like this; a guy sits in his room all day lazing about getting fat and lonely. Let's say this person decides to go out and meet some HOT CHICKS! Put yourself in this guys shoes. Hopefully it shouldn't be too easy!
I want you to ask yourself exactly how you feel right now being in this guys' smelly shoes. Exactly how successful do you think he is going to be tonight? Sure he's earned a little respect from me for going out and taking a risk for once but just think for a minute about how his life right now is influencing all those signals he's giving out. He's become so self-conscious about how terrible his life is, that you can literally see it written on his face.
Now imagine a guy who works out every day. He eats healthily, he's got a job, hobbies, friends, aspirations. On Saturdays he does charity work for the homeless. He takes a dance class and also does a little kick boxing too. He's had trouble getting laid in his life but he's working on himself completely. He's chatty and tries to make conversation with all kinds of people. He has a positive attitude and isn't afraid to assert himself as an alpha male. He speaks clearly and from the heart. He knows what he believes and doesn't compromise his opinions for anyone. His friends and family respect him for being the same on the inside as he is on the outside. He is not afraid of taking risks and he is not afraid of exploring his sexuality.
Right, well it may take a slightly bigger leap of the imagination to insert yourself into the shoes of superman here but I want you to give it a try. Imagine for a moment being this man. I hope you can understand the point I'm trying to illustrate here. To give yourself a good chance with women you need to respect yourself. You need to enjoy being in your own company and you need to be shaping your life into something that you have admired in other people.